Bored with your sex life? Try these awsome tips from the experts. Nothing can compare with the heart-racing highs of early-relationship sex, right?
You’re not quite sure how — or when — it had happened. You used to have so much fun in the bed, but suddenly your sex life just isn’t what it used to be. By 11 p.m. you’re more interested in those daily shows rather than in a steamy session with your guy.
Ready to light your fire? These best moves will make sex hotter, happier, and just plain sexier.
1. Swear Off Sex.
It’s extreme, yes, but it is highly effective. That’s because when you tell yourself you can’t have something, than you want it even more. The same is true in the bedroom — especially if you and your partner have been together and sex has become automatic.
Instead of focusing on the end game, learn to enjoy the profound sensuality of sex. Tease yourself and him. Get undressed, dim those lights and take take turns exploring each other’s bodies.
When you’re the one doing the touching, concentrate mainly on communicating love and sensuality to your partner. When you’re on the receiving end, let yourself feel the amazing sensations of each and every stroke. This will help you reconnect with each other on a whole different new level. Hold off (if you can!) for a night or two, to let the anticipation build.
2. Tell Him How To Turn You On
4. You Should Feel Like She Wants You
More than 70 percent of men said feeling of being wanted by their partner had the largest impact on their sexual desire.
Men in the study said that most significant evidence of their partner’s desire was especially when she initiated sex—so if there’s a moment that she comes onto you first, don’t hesitate to tell her that how hot it was. Hearing that you liked it might reassure her to try it again.