Sure, your sex life rocks, but you still catch yourself wondering if there isn’t a tip that could actually catapult your carnal life from all right to out-of-sight. Having good sex doesn’t necessarily mean about spending hours and hours of frolicking or adding some sex toys into the mix, it can be just as simple as doing something a little different just for sake of change.
A good sex life takes time and effort to maintain. It won’t always be easy — our busy lives are taxing and also often leave us tired and devoid of the motivation and imagination required to keep up the pace. Therefore, it’s very important to add few more stimulating aspects to your sex life to keep things interesting.
Here are best tips for having better sex, which should keep the two of you hot for some time to come. Here’s what it takes to go from “eh” to “AH!”
1. Pocketful Of Pleasure
When he’s least expecting it, tell your man that you need some change. Then stick your hand in his pocket and start rubbing his penis through the fabric, pretending that you’re really digging around for that you need. When he’s hard and good, whisper something in his ear like, “Is that a roll of quarters in your pocket or that are you just glad to see me?” He’ll practically bust out of his pants.
2. Use A Blindfold
Sexual pleasure has several dimensions, but one of the most important sexual organ we have is our brain. By blindfolding your partner increases her sensory awareness.
She doesn’t know where you are or what you are going to do next. This creates anticipation for better sex — the tease. Tease her mercilessly with sensory objects, such as a feather or your tongue.
3. Let Go — Loudly!
When you’re sexually excited, really express yourself. The more you express your pleasure, the more you make him feel like the stud of the universe. Let yourself go in whatever way feels most comfortable. Scream your head off, laugh, shout his name — just whatever you have the urge to do. Bonus: Your orgasms will be even more powerful if you really let ‘er rip vocally.
4. Try A New Place
Sex in a new locale is definitely exciting things to do for better sex. You know how hotel sex is always extra-hot? You can take a drive somewhere secluded where you can get a bit risqué. Try a public place (not too public) or just simply move to a different room or area in your home — or even someone else’s home.
Whatever tickles your fancy. You’ll both feel like you’re on an incredible vacation from the rest of the world.
Also Read:- 3 Steps To Give a Woman Multiple Orgasms.
5. Raw Animal Lust
It’s the kind of sex that feels like it does in the movies, beautiful and all photogenic. The kind of sex where if someone walked in on you two having sex, it’d make that person really question everything they knew about sex. They’d wonder if they’d been doing it all wrong.
6. Talk About Your Fantasies
Talking about your fantasies with your partner is a very conducive form of play. It also increases communication with your partner, which is of great importance, as it also helps you get to know each other better for better sex. Sit back with a glass of wine and keep your clothes on — for now.
Fantasy play can also be incorporated into a game for better sex. There are many games you can play “strip” to, as long as there is regular winner and loser to reward and also to punish respectively.
7. Pillow Power
Great sex is all about angles — the angle of his erection and your pelvis determine exactly what of the hot spots he’ll hit and also how tightly he’ll feel gripped. That’s why pillows can be passion’s best friend. Try one under his butt while you’re on top or supporting your tailbone in the missionary position. Or use a few to prop yourself up usually when lying on a counter.
8. Use Sex Toys with Him
Stock up on some sex toys. Velvet-lined handcuffs can be really exciting, and they don’t hurt like the metal ones do. And you can also never go wrong with a vibrator. Ask him to buzz it against your clitoris or just tell him simply to sit back and watch you handle it. Cock rings is another best option as it slows the drain of blood out of your erection, and keep you harder for longer. This is very much pleasing to your lady friend.
The time and energy required to plan your adventures will pay off immediately, but also over the longer term. You will be rewarded according to the effort you put in with a great new skill set, and of course better sex. There is no certain limit to the number of ways to have sex, so you can use your imagination and come up with as many weird and wonderful inventions as you desire.